myBJJ students train together as a team, and compete together as a team.
Learning about values
Playing a team sport provides kids with important lessons in personal values, Ross says. “Kids learn that things aren’t going to go their way all the time, and that they need to respect their peers as well as referees and sports officials.”
These experiences can influence them throughout their lives such as when it comes to working for a boss, or respecting the police or other authority figures.
Team sports can also be good for a child’s mental health. Children who play team sports learn how to be more resilient when presented with a setback, and are less likely to feel isolated, Ross says.
“Society puts a lot of pressure on kids to be more academic,” he says.
“But there is evidence to suggest that physical activity might increase numeracy and literacy. It’s like that old adage, ‘a healthy body, a healthy mind’.”
When your kids take part in team sports they develop:
- friendship and camaraderie
- cooperation and teamwork skills
- leadership skills
- appreciation of different abilities
- respect for team mates/ opponents/officials
- a sense of belonging/team membership
- social interaction skills
- physical skills
- self-esteem and self concept
- team goal-setting skills
- self-discipline, patience and persistence
- resilience through sharing positive and negative experiences.
Getting active (together)
With so much research emphasising the benefits of getting more exercise rather than being a couch potato, knowing their child is involved in team sports can put a parent’s mind at ease.
“It’s satisfying for parents to know that your kids are getting fit and healthy instead of just playing electronic games or watching television,” says David Haggart, head teacher of PDHPE at South Sydney High School.
“But as well as the social side of standing around with other parents and making friendships, there can be a spin off too,” he says.
“Sometimes parents look at their kids running around and think, ‘Maybe we can get together and do something like that, too’.”
Teams sports give kids the opportunity to:
- be less selfish and to think of other people
- deal with losing as well as winning. They learn that things are not going to go their way, or the team’s way, all the time
- overcome shyness by putting them into situations where they need to communicate with others
- become more sociable in different environments. They have to deal with different people, who may or may not be their friends.
– article from NSW Education and Communities, www.schoolatoz.nsw.edu.au